One day I would love to sing this song, together with my family. Who could add words to lyrics like these? They are God-inspired and written by a brother who has paid his dues through pain and heartache, yet he sings on. How many of us will do the same?
Donna Collins Tinsley is a sister among you, a sojourner, who writes a word of hope for mothers who have been affected by the pain of addiction in their loved ones lives. She prays for them also through Somebody's Mother Online Prayer Support Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/119408188089314/. She lives in Port Orange, FL and has been included in 20 book compilations, several magazines and online. She is a lover of the Lord Jesus Christ.
Monday, August 25, 2025
He is Faithful for our Families
Tuesday, August 19, 2025
Repost of an old blog
I found this old blog and am reposting. I thought I wished my life was
different back then, but would go back to it, if I could still have all my
children alive. Tomorrow will be the eleven-month anniversary of Amber’s
homecoming to the Lord.
Blog written several years ago.
Right now I’m thinking of the
kid’s book, Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day by
Judith Viorst, as a way to describe my day. Or maybe I’m having what may be
called a Velveteen type day. I think this song is so poignant and I come back
to it often.
When perfect (never quite, but that is the lyrics) turns to perfect mess
and all I have is Your love, Lord, left, I’ll be as real as real can be.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UF29lM8Hz5I
But sometimes I’d rather live a
different life, a better life, a life where good hair days are the norm and
when you eat the proper amount of protein, you lose weight instead of gain it.
Sometimes, I have to admit I want to be a Walton’s family where everyone takes
turns saying “Goodnight” to their mom and dad and everyone is at home. You know
where everyone you love is, and that makes you happy. Because you know they are
safe.
A day like this
is the kind of day where I go back and reread journals and find once again,
wonderful quotes that enhance my day. And I’m hoping, maybe yours.
‘‘It is only the
women whose eyes have been washed clear with tears who get the broad vision
that makes them little sisters to all the world’’—(Dorothy Dix) A quote like
this is made for a sister, a mother, a
daughter among us and all the groups like Somebody’s Mother Online Prayer
Support Group, Thrive, Silver Linings, Winning Women and others. One thing we
all have in common is eyes washed clear with tears. Tears that shine like
diamonds to the Lord and others who meet us.
“And I never knew if you were the lighthouse, or the storm.”
(anon) I put that one in my journal. I feel something about it concerning Jesus
as the Lighthouse but he also allows storms and brings us through the storm.
But I also feel it deeply concerning people. Hopefully we can shine a light to
help others through their storms. The storms of pain, trauma, and family
division.
“Beginning
today treat everyone as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend to
them all the love, care and kindness you can muster, and do it with no thought
of any reward. Your life will never be the same again.” (anon) If I choose to
do this, I’m sure my life would totally change. It is something I aspire to do.
I’m still
looking over an old journal and some of the letters I wrote to people over two
years ago would make you cry. I know I’m writing through tears but Glory to God! We’ve been through a whole lot
more than a bad hair day and survived and even thrived. I’m grateful for every
little bit of healing that Jesus has brought to our family and looking forward
to much more.
Monday, May 30, 2022
Memorial Day, Facebook tests and the Word of the Lord from Zephaniah.
Memorial Day, let us be truly grateful and also pause to remember those who sacrificed all for our country.
Friday, May 27, 2022
Asking for help for the people of Uvalde
Today is the day we pray for deep,
unspoken prayer requests. We continue to
pray for those in Uvalde, Texas. Lord, heal their hurts and send Your Holy
Spirit, the Comforter, to surround them during this time, we pray in Jesus
name. Even give a holy numbness to help the grieving parents through this day.
I know there will be testimonies of Your great help coming forth.
Joel
Osteen says, “God wants you to ask Him for big things. Ask Him for those hidden
dreams planted in your heart. Ask Him even for the unborn promise that might
otherwise never come to pass in the natural. Ask Him to restore your broken
ties to family members and other loved ones. Ask Him for a life free of
illness. Ask Him for a full blossoming of your talents. Ask him to fulfill your
highest hopes and dreams.”
I’m
asking, Lord.
Psalm
2:8 “Ask Me and I will give you the nations as your inheritance.”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_zh9JgvRQsM
Thursday, May 26, 2022
Got Tears? Dedicated to the families of Uvalde, Texas
Instead of our normal prayer topic of recovery for today, I
ask that everyone touch and agree and hold up the family members of those
killed in Uvalde, Texas. Lord, we are numb with grief and sorrow and just
unbelief, that people in our world can be so callous and cruel. To shoot a
family member, then many children and teachers is unbelievable. Yet we know
that the enemy of our soul wants to destroy families and he delights in the sin
of humans. There is evil in our world and it consumed first the predator and
then used him to hurt the vulnerable innocent children and teachers. Lord, all
we can do is plead Your blood and ask for mercy for America.
I call my thoughts on this tragedy: Got Tears?
You number my wanderings; Put my tears into Your
bottle... Psalm 56:8 NKJV
On Tuesday, May 24,2022, a horrible tragedy occurred once
again with many school children murdered and a community shattered.
Nineteen children – and two adults -- were shot and killed
while at what probably started out as a normal school-day; a day where everyone
was looking forward to finishing the school year and having a summer of fun.
This attack in the predominantly Latino town of Uvalde was
the deadliest school shooting in the U.S. since a gunman killed 20 children and
six adults at Sandy Hook Elementary in Newtown, Connecticut, in December 2012.
We want to say a tragedy like this is certainly abnormal;
but with more frequent shootings, we may not be able to continue to say such a
statement. We weep anew each day as we hear more about this tragedy and pray
their families are finding solace in their faith, family and friends.
The grief process takes time and I pray that our great
Father God will wrap arms of comfort around those whose family was
affected. Hopefully they will find
comfort in the fact that the Lord sees our tears and bottles them in heaven.
In the eyes of our Father in heaven the tears we cry may
look like liquid diamonds. They are so precious to Him that He stores them as
jewels that He will uncover within us at the day of His coming.
When the tears you have cried are stored in His bottle and
you are drained, He becomes your Restorer, Strength and Hope. Got tears? Yes,
we all do, but we will be amazed at the beauty of those glistening bottles
waiting for us in heaven. Our tears will be there, but our loved ones will be
there as well. Trust that God, even still, has us close under His wing.
Donna Collins Tinsley
I
will still post our recovery day song, though.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sEzbIrTF5KE&t=23s
Wednesday, May 25, 2022
Pray for the people of Uvalde, Texas
We
hold up the people affected by the tragedy in Uvalde. Lord, we ask that You
wrap arms of comfort around those who are grieving. We, as a nation, grieve.
May peace reign once again in America we pray. We ask everyone to stop and pray
for these people throughout the day, today.
Today
the prayer focus is also on single parents. May the Lord be your Help, Fortress
and Great Provider, Jehovah Jirah. So, we pray especially that You, Lord, give
blessings and special favor to single parents and their children. Put them on a
path that You can bless and let them know there is no lack with You. Send
journeymates to encourage them, I pray. Put our children and grandchildren on a
path that You, Lord, can bless every day of their lives. We speak grace to our
mountains and ask that we all press on and don’t give up or run away.
We
also pray for those sick, recovering from surgery or in the hospital. For those
who are sick or still in the hospital I pray for healing mercies and thank the
Lord for His tender mercies new every morning. For those who have had long,
painful suffering I pray that You will do what is the very best for them. Thy
will be done, thy kingdom come.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mC-zw0zCCtg
Saturday, May 21, 2022
Don't miss, “Your Words Are Powerful Be Careful What You Speak: Encouragement for 365 Days” by Suzi Yelvington!
“Your
Words Are Powerful Be Careful What You Speak: Encouragement for 365 Days”
by Suzi Yelvington uses the
scripture, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, speak life,” (Proverbs
18:21) in a powerful way.
I’ve told many people, read
your Bible and read Suzi Yelvington. I think I have nearly all her books now,
and I treasure each one. I’ve given always countless books so that I can feel
like I am on the “same page” with those I love, as each day, we are reading the
same book.
Woven between life
experiences, Suzi speaks common sense ways of living and loving to us each day.
You would think these were written by a much older woman, but she has
beautifully learned wisdom young, because I believe, God knew she wouldn’t
waste one gift that He gave her. There were so very many one sentence quotes
that got me, or became words that I passed on, or just powerful words that I
could hold on to.
This is a long overdue review. I want Suzi to know how much I
appreciate her faithfulness to the Lord, our God. Although I am much older than
she is, I recognize the gifts and knowledge within her and I am blessed every
time I open a page of “Your Words Are Powerful Be Careful What You Speak! “
Here
are just a few powerful quotes:
Do not let what you see happening allow you
forget the promises of God.”
“Declare: Today I am going to
make everything around me beautiful, this will be my life.”
“The Lord hears his people when they call. I
depend on God alone.”
“When it’s not in God’s plan, you cannot
force it. But when it is in the plan of God nothing can stop it.”
And this might be my favorite quote: “Let God put you back
together right in front of the ones that broke you. You are somebody’s
blessing.”
In the years that I’ve been following Suzi Yelvington on
Facebook, I’ve become more aware of my words. It seems, at times, that I’ve
become quieter, as the message has sunk deep within my soul. But hopefully,
also when I speak it will be with words of life. I truly recommend this book
and all other books that Suzi has written. It makes me happy to say Suzi is
local to the Daytona Beach area and is also a speaker.
Proverbs 18:2: Death and life are in the
power of the tongue, speak life.
Donna Collins
Tinsley
Sunday, May 1, 2022
Prayers for the weekend
Happy Sunday and may the Lord send many blessings to your family today, a smile for the weary heart a hug to get you through the day.
Tuesday, April 19, 2022
Praying for families of prisoners, today.
On Tuesdays we pray for Jason
Kent and all families who have a loved one incarcerated. There are many
broken-hearted parents who are missing the normal joys of life with their
family because of incarceration. Please send protection, help, wisdom and
healing for these families and their loved ones in Jesus name. I know that
there are brokenhearted grandparents and brothers and sisters also and of
course the children of prisoners endure much each day.
Remember the words of the Lord to you.
This scripture is from another version of the Bible that I use.
Psalm 118 The Message (MSG) 1-4 Thank GOD because he’s good, because his love
never quits. Tell the world, Israel, “His love never quits.” And you,
clan of (Donna)/Aaron, tell the world, “His love never quits.” And you who fear
GOD, join in, “His love never quits.” 5-16 Pushed to the wall, I called to GOD;
from the wide open spaces, he answered. GOD’s now at my side and I’m not
afraid; who would dare lay a hand on me?
Here's some more verses, if you have the time:
Isaiah
54:13New Century Version (NCV)
All
your children will be taught by the LORD,
and
they will have much peace.
“Afflicted
city, storm-battered, unpitied:
I’m
about to rebuild you with stones of turquoise,
Lay
your foundations with sapphires,
construct
your towers with rubies,
Your
gates with jewels,
and
all your walls with precious stones.
All
your children will have GOD for their teacher—
what
a mentor for your children!
You’ll
be built solid, grounded in righteousness,
far
from any trouble—nothing to fear!
far
from terror—it won’t even come close!
If
anyone attacks you,
don’t
for a moment suppose that I sent them,
And
if any should attack,
nothing
will come of it.
I
create the blacksmith
who
fires up his forge
and
makes a weapon designed to kill.
I
also create the destroyer—
but
no weapon that can hurt you has ever been forged.
Any
accuser who takes you to court
will
be dismissed as a liar.
This
is what GOD’s servants can expect.
I’ll
see to it that everything works out for the best.”
GOD’s
Decree.
Isaiah
54:13-17The Message (MSG)
Thursday, April 7, 2022
Prayers for those in a recovery walk
Thursday, a great day for Recovery in the
State of Florida and around our nation. Go to a meeting, attend a small group,
reach out to someone in prayer, be a light in this world. If you don’t feel
like you can do much on your own, join with someone else in their ministry. The
Bible says that one can chase a thousand and two can put ten thousand to flight
(Deuteronomy 32:30).
Surround all who read this today with Your
peace, love and Hope. We are praying strong prayers, though admitting we are
flawed humans that don't really know what to ask for, except we join in Thy
will be done, Thy kingdom come. We see the picture from below, the flawed
strings; the messed-up threads, but You see the beautiful tapestry from heaven
that is the complete, full and beautiful work of art. We yield to You dear Lord
and still we pray. Help, us Lord this day and please be with that one who is
hurting the most; you know who it is. I’m adding a prayer for a newly bereaved mom,
today. Lord, please comfort as only you can do.
Replaying our theme song for the words and
message. Many thanks again to Steven Scheffler for doing what I could not, with
my words. His production is awesome and he is a blessing to so many people with
his gift of music. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sEzbIrTF5KE
This prayer was inspired by the mothers who
pray over at Somebody’s Mother Online Prayer Support Group.
We are praying over at Somebody's Mother;
please feel free to join us:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/119408188089314/
I I am standing in
absolute stillness, silent before the one I love,
waiting as long as it takes for him to rescue
me.
Only God is my Savior, and he will not fail
me.
For he alone is my
safe place.
His wraparound presence always protects me
as my champion defender.
There’s no risk of failure with God!
So why would I let worry paralyze me,
even when troubles multiply around me?
God’s glory is all
around me!
His wraparound presence is all I need,
for the Lord is my Savior, my hero, and my
life-giving strength.
Trust only in God
every moment!
Tell him all your troubles and pour out your
heart-longings to him.
Believe me when I tell you—he will help you!
Psalms 62:5-8 The Passion Translation
Pause in his presence