Donna Collins Tinsley is a sister among you, a sojourner, who writes a word of hope for mothers who have been affected by the pain of addiction in their loved ones lives. She prays for them also through Somebody's Mother Online Prayer Support Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/119408188089314/. She lives in Port Orange, FL and has been included in 20 book compilations, several magazines and online. She is a lover of the Lord Jesus Christ.
Tuesday, December 8, 2020
THE WORD OF THE LORD FOR TODAY
Thursday, November 26, 2020
Thanksgiving thoughts
Happy Thanksgiving to all, even if it may be
“different” than any you’ve experienced before. If there’s an empty seat, fill
it with happy memories, thoughts and prayers.
“What would be an adequate thanksgiving to
offer God for all the joy we experience before him because of you? We do what
we can, praying away, night and day, asking for the bonus of seeing your faces
again and doing what we can to help when your faith falters.
May God our Father himself and our Master
Jesus clear the road to you! And may the Master pour on the love so it fills
your lives and splashes over on everyone around you, just as it does from us to
you. May you be infused with strength and purity, filled with confidence in the
presence of God our Father when our Master Jesus arrives with all his followers.”
From 1 Thessalonians 3 The Message
A song and a strong prayer that you will
encounter a spirit-filled day today and every day as we put our burdens aside
to concentrate on the One who is all to us:
(15) All Sons & Daughters - Brokenness
Aside - YouTube
"And therefore the Lord [earnestly]
waits [expecting, looking, and longing] to be gracious to you; and therefore He
lifts Himself up, that He may have mercy on you and show loving-kindness to
you. For the Lord is a God of justice. Blessed (happy, fortunate, to be envied)
are all those who [earnestly] wait for Him, who expect and look and long for
Him [for His victory, His favor, His love, His peace, His joy, and His
matchless, unbroken companionship]!" Isaiah 30:18 (AMP)
Double
dipping: With an Al-anon slant: I heard this said recently and thought a lot of
Al-Anon people could relate: We were a happy family; until we weren’t.
With
the theme being gratefulness, the gift you give yourself, think on this; if
your gratefulness doesn’t include yourself, it will not be complete.
They
say a heart of gratitude leaves no room for complaining. As I began writing
this, I was grieving with a mom, someone who lost a daughter too soon.
We had something in
common, both praying for one daughter in particular. Both were the same age,
32, mine is still alive; hers is not, but she is grieving well, just as she
loved well. My tears mingle with hers and I find gratitude for another day of
hope. Another day to pray, try to work my program, and try to pay forward the
hope of the program, also. As I was finishing this devotion this week, my
64-year-old brother died. His diagnosis and death came within twelve hours of
entering the hospital. I was not prepared. How can we learn to live ready for
loss?
David
Stein-Rast said, “Grateful eyes look at whatever it be as if they had never
seen it before and caress it as if they would never see it again.
Someone
else said, “Beginning today treat everyone as if they were going to be dead by
midnight. Extend to them all the love, care and kindness you can muster, and do
it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again.”
(anon)
If
we have lost family members, thank God for those we have left, if we are in
pain in one part of our body, thank God for the parts that don't hurt, if we
don't have an abundance of provision thank God for what we do have.
God,
I thank You, for placing me in my family of origin, such as it is, and my
Al-Anon family. I am grateful for Al-Anon is truly the gift I give myself as I
look forward to the meetings, the people and what they share. God has given
many of us much favor, pain, dysfunction, yet great love and even laughter, to
get us through our days.
I
pray a double blessing upon all who are here today. If you are hurting, I pray
that God binds Your wounds and sorrows, if you think your dreams won't come
true, I pray you get a new dream, if you are missing a loved one either through
death or estrangement, I pray you go back in your memories and find a good one
to dwell on and thank God for that precious moment. It may be that moment you
held that sweet child in your arms for the first time and thought your heart
would explode with love and that the world had stood still, you were so
blessed. We never thought they might
grow up to be an addict.
When
I think on gratitude, I acknowledge God’s sovereignty, and I can accept with
serenity that even though things in my world are out of my control, they are
fully in God’s control. Today, I’m grateful to have a family, a home, and
Al-anon. This program and the friends I have made through it have enhanced my
life and for that I will be forever grateful.
Thursday, November 19, 2020
My book review of Softly Blows the Bugle (The Amish of Weaver's Creek) Paperback
My book review of Softly
Blows the Bugle (The Amish of Weaver's Creek) Paperback
This book by Jan Drexler
will take you to another world; the world of the Amish in 1865.
Jan Drexler is a new
author to me. I’d felt like I’d already read the best of Amish authors, but I
was wrong. I was really drawn in to the story line, almost immediately. I liked
some of the subjects it explored proving as the Bible says, there really is
nothing new under the sun.
At first, I was alarmed
that she seemed so gullible concerning the handsome and suave, Solomon Mast. His
deceptiveness was described early in his introduction and it was hard to wait
for Elizabeth to see his true character. But I was very glad the way the story
continued and the way it ended. I’m definitely going to check out some of Jan’s
previous books and if she does any follow-up books about the Weaver Creek Amish
community.
Although I received
this book free of charge from Revell Reads in exchange for my honest review;
I’m so very glad to have read it.
Tuesday, November 3, 2020
When you have that dry spell.
Last night at Word Weavers Volusia, one of our sweet members, Katelan, brought a blog titled: Dry Spell.
She talked about how hard it is to focus on the Lord when we can't "feel" Him at work within us. As far as my writing and reaching out, I feel the same right now. When that happens, I sometimes have to re-prime the pump, by reading good books and even going back and reading my own blogs. When I can't post something new, I can always repost a blog.
You may relate to how some people in your life, some groups, such as this one, literally hold you up before the Lord. May the Lord always send a journeymate to encourage you along life's way.
The Lord has always had someone there to hold my arms up as with Moses throughout all the years of pain.
From an old blog: Words and Scriptures to hold on to today!
Joshua obeyed Moses and went to fight the Amalekites, while Moses, Aaron, and Hur went to the top of the hill. As long as Moses held his hands up, the Israelites would win the fight, but when Moses put his hands down, the Amalekites would win. Later, when Moses' arms became tired, the men put a large rock under him, and he sat on it. Then Aaron and Hur held up Moses' hands—Aaron on one side and Hur on the other. They kept his hands steady until the sun went down. So Joshua defeated the Amalekites in this battle. Exodus 17:10-13 New Century Version (NCV)
I have been thinking about this scripture for days and wanted to share a bit about what it means to me and my hopes for the Somebody's Mother Online Prayer Support Group. It can also pertain to She Writes for Him group, I believe.
Before Somebody’s Mother prayer group for over 20 years Anita Smith, Ginny Long, Nancy Cox and the women from the Winning Women Bible study group held my hands up as they prayed with me and for my family. Many have been the trials and hard times along the way but I always knew they were praying and it was what kept me going. As we pray for one another each day, know we are helping a sister or brother win battles that they could not win alone. The battle is the Lord's my friend, and they will be won by him in His time. Never give up!
I'm inserting a paraphrase here: So, Somebody's Mother Online Prayer Support Group defeated the enemy in this battle on earth called life.
Deuteronomy 1:29-31
Then I said to you, Dread not, neither be afraid of them.
The Lord your God Who goes before you, He will fight for you just as He did for you in Egypt before your eyes,
And in the wilderness, where you have seen how the Lord your God bore you, as a man carries his son, in all the way that you went until you came to this place.
And you shall chase your enemies, and they shall fall before you by the sword. (of the Spirit, I'm inserting here)
Five of you shall chase a hundred, and a hundred of you shall put ten thousand to flight; your enemies shall fall before you by the sword (of the Spirit and Word of faith through prayer). Leviticus 26:7-8,
These are words and Scriptures to hold on to today!
The Lord is good, even when it hurts, even when we weep. He is keeping those prayers and tears in His bowls in heaven.
Keep praying and write on!
Sunday, November 1, 2020
Prayers for Prodigals: 90 Days of Prayer for Your Child by James Banks (Author)
Prayers
for Prodigals: 90 Days of Prayer for Your Child by James Banks (Author)
When I
finished reading Hope Lies Ahead: Encouragement for Parents of Prodigals from a
Family That's Been There by James and Geoffrey Banks, I knew the next book I
would be reading is the one I’m reviewing right now. In fact, I’ve read it once
and am reading it again, and will probably keep it as part of my daily
devotional books; it’s that beautiful. I couldn’t wait and do it a day at a
time for 90 days, I consumed and savored the beauty of the words and the
prayers. I could feel the pain, the sincerity and the love of these poignant
scripture-filled prayers.
I do
believe prayer is one of the best and most concrete things we can do for our
loved ones. I loved that there were both prayers for sons and daughters,
although I hated that their family, like many others have had more than one
prodigal. I believe prayer is a working tool towards family recovery and this
family knows it well.
I’ve
taken this book with me to small group meetings where people have been blessed
by the prayers within as well as to the radio station PRAYERLINE (WAPN FM, 91.5
HOLLY HILL, FL) after being given gracious permission to read as needed on the
air.
This
book is a Christian classic! I have to agree with Franklin Graham, his mother
would’ve loved this book, just as so many of us have loved her “prodigal” book.
Donna
Collins Tinsley
Saturday, October 31, 2020
My book review of OUR TOWN ATHEIST by Victoria Buck
OUR TOWN ATHEIST by Victoria
Buck
Victoria Buck, who always
writes a page-turning novel, has changed genres it seems. She does an excellent
job of drawing us into the story of a small, Southern town banker, who turns
into a hero, but his “secret” of being an atheist is outed. He is one of the
most likeable, moral people around and there are wonderful sub-plots, (even one
in Iraq concerning terrorists) that will keep your interest in this book.
Adam Bender, a man brought
up by a Jewish father and a Christian mother left faith of any kind behind when
he became an adult. He said it was a conclusion, not a choice. Yet, he seems drawn
to religious people. He was happy with his life until he thinks he sees an
angel, a ghost wearing a pork pie hat, a phantom dog and perhaps hell-fire? His
permission for a writer to interview him ended with a column called, “What the
Atheist Saw,” that should’ve satisfied even the most inquiring citizens of the
small town.
There is a lot of mystery,
drama and even a budding love story to look forward to as you read this book.
One quote that is interesting
from the book by the town preacher is “People are going to believe what they
want, even if they have to deny the evidence.”
The other paragraph that was
beautifully crafted included these words, “They laughed and held each other. He
left her side only long enough to bring her a cup of hot chocolate. After a few
too many yawns, she knew it was time to say good night to the man she loved.
She wasn’t ready to slide out of her moral comfort zone, and he was too much a
gentleman to ask her to. But she couldn’t help but dream.”
I think you will find Our
Town Atheist will have you wanting more of this genre from Victoria Buck.
Donna Collins Tinsley
Saturday, October 10, 2020
Praying for those who grieve on Saturdays
Ann Voscamp says, “You can be too broken to be.” She also
talks about grief here:
“There is no fear in
letting tears come. Sadness is a gift to avoid the nothingness of numbness, and
all hard places need water. Grief is a gift, and after a rain of tears, there
is always more of you than before. Rain always brings growth.”
It’s Saturday and the day we focus on those families who’ve
lost loved ones, maybe recently, maybe it’s been a while but grief has its own
timetable. We pray for strength for the journey, comfort from the Lord and His
people and for love to surround you through the numbness of coping with what must
be dealt with. Jesus, lover of my soul, bind our wounds and make us whole.
Show
us how to live, one day at a time, giving You glory. Your love never fails,
though sometime our faith does.
Augustine
said it stunningly: "In my deepest wound, I see Your glory and it dazzles
me."
Sudden death may be harder to understand than when
there has been a long illness, especially when we feel our loved one has turned
the corner and is on a good path. We had hope that this was the time of
recovery but then have to lean not to our own understanding. At the point of
thinking only that our Lord knew the future and perhaps spared them from
something worse. Lord, comfort the family left behind as only You can. Thinking
of a special sister/mom today.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDZMgFax5vA
Wednesday, September 23, 2020
Reviewing The Edge of Belonging by Amanda Cox, a real page turner
What is the secret about
baby Ivy Rose? What trauma followed her to her adulthood and makes it hard for
her to make good relationship choices? Does DNA really matter?
These are some of the
questions that arose while reading The Edge of Belonging by Amanda Cox.
It was the kind of book that
made me wish I had a whole, empty day to myself to read to my heart’s content.
Please trust me when I say the content of this novel is excellent and it will
warm your heart.
The dual-time storyline was
not hard to follow. I think I wanted to stay in the past most of the time, as
who wouldn’t want to know what happens to an abandoned infant? It is one of the
best dual-time books I’ve read recently. The characters were compelling and believable.
I’m having a hard time
believing this was a first novel. Looking forward to reading more from Amanda.
Although I received this
book free of charge from Revell Reads in exchange for my honest review; I’m so
very glad to have read it.
Tuesday, September 22, 2020
Backstory of how the song RESTORE THEM TO YOU came about
I
can’t believe I forgot to post our song on my own blog! RESTORE THEM TO YOU.
Praise
the Lord for His lyrics and much thanks to Steven Scheffler for his voice,
melody and servant's heart to Bill and me, throughout our life.
Dedicated
to the praying moms at Somebody's Mother Online Prayer Support Group and to
WAPN 91.5 PRAYERLINE. Steve Scheffler produced, sang and did background to the
video.
Here
are Steve’s words as a bit of backstory: "So, a good, good friend that I've
known for many years asked me if I would put a poem of hers to music. I read the poem and gave her the thumbs up at
giving this a try.
The
song is about mother's who have children that are lost and living lives that
are dangerous and problematic filled!
Donna Tinsley has really been through some tough stuff with her own
children, but also with her children's children. She continues to fight the good fight of
faith in believing that God is more than capable of bringing all those children
into the Lord.
As
Christian parents we will sometimes have to walk with prodigal children, those
who deny the faith and live lives contrary to what God planned for us in Christ
Jesus. What to do? Prayer continually and believe God to do a
work that only He can do. My daughter
Corrie is a testament to that happening.
She has really become a bright and beautiful saint of God. Her faith is contagious!! More than Covid 19 ever will be! She is a
product of God's calling, drawing and transforming.
The
video is a tough one to watch. It is
Donna Tinsley's desire that this song and video will encourage you to continue
to pray for your lost children. To
believe that God still has a plan for their lives even though they seem to
rebel against the idea. God is still
able to draw all to Himself through the work and love of Christ Jesus.
Perhaps
this song will ignite a greater zeal in those who see and hear it to pray all
the more and believe God to restore not only our children to us, but also the
many saints who have left the faith in the years I've been a Christian. Bill Tinsley felt that the song was very much
geared towards the many children of God who have left the faith. I concur it could easily be translated into
that thinking as well.
In
any case, I pray that this song of Donna Tinsley's will stir the hearts and
minds of many to believe that God can indeed still save our wayward
children. Remember that "Salvation
belongs to the LORD!" We can't save
them, but He can!!
We
believe for a miracle Lord, bring your children home to You! Love and peace to all."Steve Scheffler
Tuesday, September 8, 2020
Things I love, things I hate
"Every
morning, I lay out the pieces of my life on your altar, and watch for fire to
descend."
Things I Love, in no particular
order:
I love my family and many others who “feel” like family.
I love seeing a husband and wife laugh and have fun together.
I love the innocence of children.
I love justice.
I love seeing someone care for the elderly with love.
I love when righteousness reigns in a nation.
I love seeing the smile of a homeless person, who is grateful.
I love looking at someone content with their life.
I love old memories.
I love dreams of hope.
I love kind doctors who put children first.
I love to dance!
I love all kinds of music.
I love support groups, one in particular.
I love people who pray.
I love to read.
I love my Bible.
I love books.
I love a good movie, one that is not profane.
I love going to movies, rare as that is.
I love listening to awesome, passionate speeches from the past. I have a dream,
too.
I love the creativity of my Lord.
I love the LORD JESUS CHRIST and the thrill of being His child.
Things I hate:
I hate Injustice!
I hate child abuse in any form.
I hate when someone steals the innocence of a child.
I hate mean talking and profanity.
I hate that families are torn apart by unforgiveness.
I hate “hate-groups.”
I hate that it is politically correct to talk against Christians or “Christian-bash.”
I hate adultery and so does God.
I hate that people don’t really talk anymore.
I hate seeing people together but using their smartphones to communicate.
Rather than continue thinking of negative things, I’ll leave you with these
thoughts:
“Summing it all up, friends, I’d say you’ll do best by filling your minds and
meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling,
gracious—the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to
praise, not things to curse. Put into practice what you learned from me, what
you heard and saw and realized. Do that, and God, who makes everything work
together, will work you into his most excellent harmonies.” Philippians 4:8-9
The Message (MSG)
May you be blessed today, my friend.